Hmong Baptist National Association

Brotherly Love: A Reflection on True Christian Love

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By: Dr. Joseph Yang

Bible passage:  Romans 12: 10 (NIV)

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

Summary:

Brotherly love is a foundational teaching in the Christian faith. The Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Romans, urges believers to be devoted to one another in love and to honor one another above themselves. This call to love is not superficial or conditional but is a deep, genuine affection that reflects Christ’s love for us. True brotherly love goes beyond mere words; it is displayed in actions of kindness, patience, forgiveness, and selflessness. Just as Christ laid down His life for us, we are called to demonstrate sacrificial love toward our brothers and sisters in Christ.

Reflection:

Brotherly love is more than just being kind or polite; it is a sincere, heartfelt commitment to the well-being of others. This type of love is rooted in humility, where we put the needs of others before our own. In today’s world, where self-centeredness often prevails, practicing brotherly love can be challenging. We may encounter difficult people, disagreements, and even betrayal. Yet, Jesus calls us to love as He loves—unconditionally and sacrificially. When we love one another genuinely, we create a community of faith where people feel valued, accepted, and encouraged. Our love for each other is also a powerful testimony to the world that we are followers of Christ (John 13:35).

Application:

  1. Practice Selflessness – Look for ways to serve others without expecting anything in return. It could be helping a neighbor, encouraging a struggling friend, or simply listening with empathy.
  2. Forgive and Reconcile – If there is any bitterness or unforgiveness in your heart, ask God for the strength to forgive and seek reconciliation. Love keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5).
  3. Encourage and Build Up – Speak words of encouragement to those around you. A simple act of kindness or affirmation can uplift someone’s spirit and demonstrate Christ’s love.
  4. Pray for One Another – Commit to praying for your brothers and sisters in Christ, asking God to strengthen, guide, and bless them in their faith journey.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for the love You have shown us through Jesus Christ. Help us to love one another sincerely and selflessly, just as You have loved us. Teach us to honor others above ourselves and to show grace, patience, and kindness in all situations. May our love be a testimony of Your goodness and draw others closer to You. Strengthen our hearts to forgive, encourage, and serve with joy. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.